So, when a Reddit user asked, 'What is one thing you regret doing in life?' people were ready to share their biggest mistakes, bad choices, or overall moments of remorse.
Not ending bad/unhealthy/unfulfilling relationships sooner - Superseriouslyguys
Going to college before I had the slightest idea what I wanted to do with my life. - Mysterious_Shake2894
So, this is gonna sound kinda dumb, but I kinda wish I had acted out a bit more. Taken more risks, gotten in trouble more, explored and pushed my boundaries.
I was pretty sheltered growing up and really wanted to be this good person. It created a lot of conflicting feelings for me. It also contributed to me avoiding doing some stuff cause I thought it'd be bad for me.
Now that I'm older and worked through some of those issues, I feel like I missed out on a lot of stuff other people got in their teens and 20s. I'm now at a point where I'm exploring that, but most people my age have already gone through it. I just feel like I'm trying to 'catch up''with everybody. - animewhitewolf
Not believing in myself. I spent too much time allowing other people’s beliefs to become my own which stopped me (personally) from pursuing what I wanted for myself. I got caught up in the “it’s too hard, I can’t do it, I’m not smart enough” mentality that others around me had and adopted it for myself.
I quit college when I was young and got into hustle culture where I let a lot of people convince me that college is too hard and that it’s a waste of time. However, I’m proud to say that in 7 days, I’m graduating with my Bachelors degree at the age of 30 and it’s only up from here!
I never thought this day would come and it’s finally here!! For anyone here who’s weighed down by these regrets, It’s never too late. I believe in you - suavemami
I regret more that I haven't done, than what I have. - tranquilrage73
Not taking care of my teeth - pudzey7
I wish I had traveled in my youth. I've seen so little of the world. - TECrec008
I have many. What age range are we talking here?
Under 18/teen years: wasting money, not reading more, and not trying in school.
Twenties: wasting money, how I treated a lot of people in my life at the time, and gaining a significant amount of weight (I've since lost but still)
Thirties: mostly I could have been a better partner to my now-wife
Here's hoping my 40's are much better! - lokcal
I'm 61 and I spent most of my life full of anxiety. I wish I had found more joy. - dalekaup
Smoking. 20 years spent on expensive, self-fed poison. Biggest regret of my life, by far. - Itsprobablysarcasm
Mentally exhausting myself at work for companies that turned out to not care about me or value my work. - fpuni107
Overthinking my way out of potentially rewarding choices - mmmmike1590
Not following my dreams and ended up sitting behind a desk for 30 years...of course, I'm currently on Reddit sitting behind my desk. So, there's that. - CatOnTheHill
Not putting myself out there enough. I probably missed out on a lot of opportunities because I'm so self conscious. Working on this though! - Fife_Flyer
I regret making friends with people who i knew were bad for me just because it was easier than becoming friends with good people. Now I don't have many solid friends - misswallflowerr
Gonna say this and I am never gonna say it again. I regret not putting some distance between myself and my family members.If I had done that I believe I would have had a different life. - DropExciting6408
In my younger years, being afraid of aging and caring what people thought about me. Here I am at 54 and enjoying my best life ever. Who knew? Certainly not 20-something year old me! - paulabear203
Worrying so much about find a partner or love. Like those are lovely things. But like… overstated. There’s a lot to the world and life besides love. When it hits it’s a hit punch for sure, but so are breaking your own barriers and reaching your own goals. Life is not about finding your person. It’s about finding yourself - f*ckboireject
Wasting time worrying about people that never spared me a single thought. - Eborys