Woman shares epic story of ruining life of lying, cheating, deadbeat dad.
In a post on Reddit a woman shared an epic story of getting revenge on a terribly guy. It's a long one, but worth the read. Here's her story...
'Oh, you had me living a lie for a year? Maybe I'll just go ahead and dismantle every aspect of your life. This is a trailer trash roller coaster. All aboard!'
I thought I was in a slightly tumultuous but overall fun relationship for a year. I had gotten out of a 12 year relationship when I met a guy (let's call him Adam). He was so charming and handsome I thought I won the lottery!
Here's where the lies start.
Adam was super pushy about saying 'I love you' first and defining our relationship. He introduced me to his family. His niece started calling me Auntie. He tells me about his 3 children and their mothers and lies about how the mother of his oldest hates him and is keeping him away from the kid.
'But then things started getting weird. His 'ex' started calling all the f**king time, multiple times a day.'
They had children together, but the grandmother had custody the lie I was told to make it seem normal was that both of them had jobs where they traveled a lot, so they signed legal guardianship over to the g-ma to make schooling & emergency issue easier. Then she moved down to the city we were loving in for 'work training'.
Then she was moving down permanently without the kids. When I asked why the kids weren't coming, the lie I was told they need to stay in the same school Um, they are 6 and 4 I'd say staying with parents is more important at that age than their peer group. It was weird, but I'm the cool girlfriend and it wasn't my place to tell them where their daughters should live.
Adam's 'work' was in the cannabis industry, kind of. He worked with the 'ex' brother in law going to legal states, buying pounds at a time and trafficking it via USPS. So, when he tells me he's going to Oregon I think nothing of it.
After a week in Oregon, a lot of stories aren't adding up, like his phone is always dead even though he carries a power bank with him. THEN one of his 'friends' starts posting cuddled up selfies with him. I quickly put 2 and 2 together and dump him for cheating on me with this chick in Oregon.
Now the truth:
After I dumped him I made a messy facebook post on his wall, which the mother of his oldest child sees and she contacts me and lays out the truth!
He never contacts his oldest daughter, even though he has her cellphone. No one is keeping him from her.
He owes $20k in back child support for her, as he has never once made a payment and he moves around a lot & works under the table, so the mother was never able to collect garnishments or anything.
He has a huge criminal record starting at age 15, and then a lifetime of fraud, larceny charges I knew nothing about!
His 'ex' who moved to our city was his girlfriend of 9 years who was very much still in a relationship with him.
They willingly gave up the 2 children because they preferred to party.
There is a FOURTH child!?!?! He and the mother conspired to pin the paternity on another poor sap and it's been 17 years now that this other man has been paying for a kid that is not his.
'I was his side chick:
His family knew and played along in the lie and included their 10 and 16 year old children in the lie!
His chick in Oregon is actually his starcrossed lover from childhood! And every time they would try to be together one or the other would end up in jail!
The Oregon chick ALSO has a criminal record highlights include criminally negligent homicide from a DUI where she killed her passenger, fraud, larceny charges
This shocked me, so I paid for a criminal background check which is how I learned of their records.
The revenge:
I PROFUSELY thanked the ex for telling me the truth about the situation, and then...
I gave the ex ALL of his info - SSN, State ID#s, current and past known addresses. With this she contacted her state's Child Support Services.
He now will have his Drivers license revoked and can't get one no matter the state he moves to until he is current with his past payments.
If he ever gets a real job 25% of his wages will be garnished
He now has a warrant for his arrest in the state his oldest kid lives.
He's trying to play house with his new GF and contacted the mother of his oldest to arrange a meeting with his kid and his gf's child. The mother is 'playing nice' and pretending it's a-go and he is planing a trip to visit the daughter.
He will not see her, at the 'meeting' he will be seeing the police and they will arrest him for failure to pay, and he won't get out of jail until he pays a sizable chunk of the $20,000 past-due PLUS bail!
I gave the ex his info THE DAY BEFORE his federal tax refund was set to go out, She was fast enough at getting his info to CSS that they INTERCEPTED his full tax refund and now he has for the first time paid for something for his child.
His past due child support is also going on his credit report
I know the name of the business his ex brother in law owns and uses to launder his money from his 'cannibis job,' so I dropped a dime to the IRS. He's losing his only steady income soon and can't get a job a Walmart due to his criminal record, and if he DOES manage to find someone that hires without criminal background checks he will lose 1/4 of his paycheck.
Update 4.5 months later:
Adam has stayed in communication with the ex who helped me get revenge for the longest period he's ever sustained because he (laughably) believed she would give him back half of his tax return.
She of course kept every penny, and told him she never got it 'it must be going into an account the state has set up for our daughter because I haven't gotten anything'
Adam forgot his daughters b-day, which caused a lot of drama because only days before his new girlfriend made a fathers day facebook post to 'all the fathers who can't be with their child on this special day'
His new girlfriend was trying to defend Adam to his ex by telling her that his work hours make it so hard for him - well, his early hours on the west coast happened to perfectly line up with his daughter's on the east coast. They just make excuses for each other.
HA! So, his new girlfriend was dumb enough to let slip he has a job, and what the hours are, and where it was over the drama of not calling his daughter on her b-day & now that his ex knows about it. She told her case worker at CSS (Child Support Services) so his wages are getting garnished.
Adam finally sent her a pair of Jordan's a few weeks later, but the kid didn't care and still won't talk to him on the phone.
Adam and his new girlfriend play happy couple on FB.
Adam tells ex because of the garnishments he can't afford to fly & visit.
So, I thought my story ended here.
Not everything I wanted, but his ex is getting regular money and so justice had been done.
Oddly enough, I felt....nothing, which was amazing. I just let it pass because I am moving on with my life. I didn't even tell his ex.
Then, 4 days ago while I was on vacation I get a message from his ex.
Now, everything's coming up roses for me!