16 people reveal how they discovered that their partner was cheating on them.

Finding out that your partner has been cheating is never a fun feeling (unless you're into that and in that case, no judgement), but in reality it's not always dramatic as the awkward walk-in moment that rom-coms would like us to believe....

So, when a Reddit user asked, 'How did you find out you were getting cheated on?' people who found out the hard way that their partner wasn't as loyal as they believed were ready to share the moment of truth. Note: never tell anyone your phone passcode...

1.

My neighbor told me that there was a odd car parked in my driveway when the ex was supposed to be at work. - OlderITGuy

2.

A man knocked on my door and introduced himself as the husband of a woman that my husband worked with. He was there to tell me that his wife was having an affair with my husband. My husband never came home after that. He got an Airbnb and told me to get a lawyer. We had been together for 24 years. - headcase-and-a-half

3.

I got an email from some guy I met once at a friend of a friend's party. My wife was seeing his former housemate behind my back. He had been cheated on himself and was doing me a solid favor. Tipped me off with the address and said to check EZ pass and phone records. I caught and confronted her leaving the guy's house the next day. We're lucky we didn't have any kids. I've been divorced for almost 10 years. Never been happier. - profdart

4.

He pocket dialed me while bragging about it to a co-worker. The universe really had my back on that one. - jaggedxangel

5.

He gave me his phone to hold while he was having a minor medical procedure and while in the waiting room, a text came through. It said something like 'Ha, so we can dothedeed again?' and I was totally confused, so I scrolled up through the text thread and read 'I'm sorry if you feel guilty' and 'No, I'd only feel guilty if I still loved her' and that was the end of that relationship. - azemilyann26

6.

I have long and straight hair, and I saw all over his bed some women's curly hair. I went to the bathroom and saw a bunch from the same hair also on the hairbrush which I used when I went to his place. He called me crazy and said no one was at his place. - Andybrs

7.

The girl messaged me from an anonymous IG account letting me know it happened while I was out of town. Maybe I wouldn’t have believed it if she didn’t provide specific details, like the type of car I drove that I had let the car-less cheater drive while I was gone. - cynthcerv

8.

Open up the tablet to play with it, found an open email that I had never seen before - read the messages between them. I’ve never been the same since. Divorced now. We were together for 30 years. - twitching2000

9.

Was using her phone for GPS while we were on a road trip because mine had issues when she got a text from the guy we had been in marriage counseling about who she says she hasnt talked to him for months about seeing her tomorrow. 24 years of being together 23 years married 2 kids A house - rhett342

10.

The other woman knocked on my front door and asked me to take my kid and get out so that the two of them could be together and be happy. I told her she could have him, but they'd have to go because technically I owned the house. I then told him he was free to go.He did not go, sadly. She'd been dropped off by her ex who she'd cheated on with my (ex)husband. That was quite awkward. - telolo1517

11.

Phone bill. She was texting some random number 600 times a month. I thought I recognized the number and when I put it in my phone it was a buddy of mine. - rmorlock

12.

He hooked up with random girls when he was supposed to be at his mom. One evening at a friend's party, there was a girl who wasn't of our group (a friend of a friend). She went ' Oh! Hi! Remember me! It was sooo fun' - AGaroult

13.

I was pregnant and they were doing the standard tests including STDs and I tested positive for chlamydia. I was sooo embarrassed, but glad to have found out because it turns out that can really mess up a pregnancy. Still took me another year to file for divorce though. - Lurkle87

14.

The other girl was wearing my clothes in front of me. - Gummiebear411

15.

Had to cancel our plans as some important work stuff came up. Ended up wrapping up earlier than expected. Decided to drive to her place to surprise her... I was the one who was surprised when I noticed someone else's car in her driveway. Literally and figuratively. - PungentBark420

16.

I didn't know at the time we broke up, for sure, but she was engaged a week after we broke up. - Horknut1